nEKdg o~qjï §ug Èh‚hf.a isrerg wdfõY jQ ñh.sh mshd
ud,sld;a w;=,;a újdy jqfKa fma%u iïnkaOhlska'
fofokdu hula lula ;snqK mjq,aj, wh' Tjqka fofokdf.a iïnkaOhg foudmshkaf.a
wkque;sh ,enqKg miafi ud,sldf. ;d;a;d ud,sldg fok odhdo .ek;a w;=, iu. m%ldY
lr, ;snqKd'
ud,sldg ;j fidhqre fidhqßhka lSm fokl=u isá ksid
ish,a,gu iufia foam< fnÈh hq;= neúka ud,sld újdy jk úg wehg ;d;a;df.ka odhdo
jYfhka tu foam< ,enqfKa kE' ish,a, miqj fnod fjka lr §ug ud,sldf.a ;d;a;d
is;d bkak we;s' foam< yereKq úg ud,sld fjkqfjka rka wdNrK uqo,a jeks odhdo
wef.a ;d;a;d wehg fkd§ isáfha kE'
kuq;a wehg fmdfrdkaÿ jQ foam< fkd§fuka ;d;a;d
jxpdjla l< njhs w;=,f.a iy Tyqf.a md¾Yajfha whf.a woyi jqfKa' fï .ek w;=,
jßka jru wdvmd,s lshk fldg ud,sld udkislj f.dvla wirK jqKd' kuq;a ta mSvdj ;ksj
ord isáhd úkd ;udg ysñ foam< ,nd fok f,i b,a,ñka mshdg lror lf<a kE'
ud,sld /lshdjla l< flfkla fkdfjhs' weh hemqfKa
w;=,f.a wdodhñka' fï ksid w;=,g ;j ;j;a wehg tfrysj jd.a m%ydr t,a, lsÍfï
yelshdj ,enqKd' flfia fyda fï is;a fõokd w;rueo ud,sld orejl=;a ìys l<d'
bkamiqj j;a foam< fnod foaú lsh,d w;=, n,dfmdfrd;a;= jqK;a
ta woyi bgq
jqfKa kE' fï ksid fkdi;=gg m;a w;=, ud,sldf.a msáka ;uhs ta fkdukdmlï msg lr
yeßfha'
fï w;r;=r§ ud,sldf. ;d;a;d wikSm jqKd' oreKq f,vla
fkdjqK;a Tyq frdayf,a
mjd k;r lr ;snQ ksid ;d;a;dj n,kak hkak ud,sldg oeä jqjukdjla we;s jqKd' kuq;a
w;=, Bg bv ÿkafka
kE' mjqf,a
;j orejka isák ksid ud,sld fkdie,l=jg ;d;a;dg wvqmdvqjla isÿ fkdjqK;a frda.SjQ
;d;a;dj oel Tyqg ;udf.a w;ska n;a lgla ljkak j;=r W.=rla fmdjkak
ud,sldg ;snqfKa f,dl= jqjukdjla' kuq;a w;=, lsisfia;a Bg bv ÿkafka kE'
lsisjl= fkdis;+ ú,iska ud,sldf.a ;d;a;d tu frda.fhka
ñh .shd' fï .ek weiqjd ú;rhs ud,sldg oekqKq lïmkh jpkfhka úia;r lrkak neß ;rï'
weh ;d;a;df.a urKh fjkqfjka y~d je<mqfka úfhda ÿl iu. ;udg Tyq Ôj;aj isáh§
i,lkakg bvla fkd,eìfï miq;eú,a, o oeäj is;g oekSu ksihs'
wjuÕ=,a lghq;= jf.au y;a ojfia odkudk
lghq;=;a wjika fj,d ud,sld wdmiq w;=,f.a f.org .shd' Bg i;s follg ú;r miafi
ud,sld wikSm fjkak mgka .;a;d' nv mmqj oeú,a," isref¾ wm%d‚l .;sh"
uq¿ YÍrhu llshk wdldrfha fõokdj jeks ,laIK ;uhs wehg uq,skau oekqfKa' ;j;a ál
ojilg miafia lEu wreÑh" kskao fkdhdu" ;ry hdu" isrerg oefkk
wm%d‚l .;sh jeks ,laIK u;=ùu ksid ud,sld ;j;a wmyiqjg m;a jqKd' fï i|yd w;=,
wehg m%;sldr ,nd ÿkak;a thska iqjhla ,enqfKa kE' oeka ud,sldf.a YÍrh;a lDY ùug
mgka wrka' weh orejd n,d lshd .ksñka f.or jev ál lf<a;a f.dvla wmyiqfjka'
Tfydu bkak w;f¾ tl ojil ysá yeáfha ud,sldg wdfõYhla we;s jqKd' th isÿ jqfKa
iekaoE hduhl' weh bkamiq l;d lf<a wef.a ;d;a;df.a lg yäka'
—uu f,v fj,d biamsß;df,;a ysáhd' ta;a ÿfõ WU tl
ojila j;a ux uefrkak l,ska udj n,kak wdfõ kE' Wfò ñksyd" WUg tkak ÿkafka
kE fkao@˜ hs ud,sld wdfõY ù mshdf.a lgyäka mjid bkamiq w;=,g myr foñka Tyqj
iQrkakg mgka .;a;d' ta fj,dfõ weh ;=< ;snqfKa f,dl= Yla;shla' tksid w;=,
wef.ka ñÿfka oeä W;aidyhlska'
ud,sldf.a ;d;a;d urKfhka miq N+;dfõYfhka ud,sldf.a
YÍrhg we;=,a ù w;=,g ysxid lrk njg w;=,f.a kEoEhka w;r wdrxÑh me;sr .sfha
ksfïIhlska' flfia fyda wjia:djka lsysmhl§u w;=, fufia myr lEfuka miq Tjqka jy
jyd f.or f;dú,hla iQodkï l<d'
f;dú,h chgu isÿjqK;a ud,sld idudkH ;;a;ajfhka isáfha
Èk fol ;=kl ld,hla muKhs' Bg miqj kej;;a fmr mßÈu wehg mshdf.a wdfõYh we;s
jqKd' neßu ;ek w;=, ud,sldj frday,g tlalrf.k .sfha wef.ka myr lEu ksid Tyq
fndfyda mSvdjg m;aj isàu ksihs'
ud,sldg ;snqfKa mshdf.a wdfõYhla fyda N+; fodaIhla
fkdfjhs' wehg ;snqfKa udkisl wdndOhla' ;ukaf.a frda.S jQ mshdg i,lkak j;a wvqu
;rñka Tyqj n,kakgj;a wjia:dj fkd,eìu u; ud,sld úYd, udkisl wjmSvk ;;a;ajhlg m;a
jqKd' ta wkqj weh úYdo ^Depression& frda.shl= ù isáhd' ta w;r mshdg
fkdie,lSu ksid ;ud w;ska úYd, jrola isÿù ;sfnk njg we;sjQ yeÕSu;a weh ;=<
;snQ udkisl mSvkh jeä lsÍug iu;a jqKd'
wehg uq,§ we;sjQ ish¨ ldhsl frda.
,laIK úYdo frda.h ksid yg .kakd ,o tajdhs' idudkHfhka msßñhl= ;=< udkisl
mSvkhla
we;sjqKdu Tyq fldamh ;=<ska th msg lr yßkjd' iuyre u;ameka mdkh lsÍug;a
fm<fUkjd' kuq;a wdishd;sl ldka;djf.a fï udkisl mSvkh msg;g tkafka uq¿
YÍrfhau oefkk fõokdj" mmqj oeú,a," nv oeú,a, jeks .eiag%hsáia ,laIK
wdÈfhka' fï ldka;djg;a uq,§ ffjoH m%;sldr .ekSfï § tkafvdiafldms mÍlaIKh ;=ka
j;djla isÿlr ;snqfKa wef.a .eiag%hsáia ,laIK ksihs' isref¾ wm%d‚l .;sh"
iq¿ jevla l<;a f,dl= uykaishla oekSu" ysf;a nr .;sh"
fudkfoa l<;a isf;a i;=gla ke;s ùu tÈfkod Ôú;h
;=< fndfyda foa wu;l ùu" ;ry md,kh lr .ekSu wmyiq ùu wd§ jYfhka ud,sldg
oekS ;snQ ,laIK ish,a,u úYdo frda.fha§ oelsh yels tajdhs' úYdo frda.h msg;g
t<s oelafjk tla wdldrhla ;uhs ú>gkdndO ^Dissociative disorder& udkisl
wdndO ;;a;ajh' ú>gkdndOfha m%;sM,hla f,i ;uhs wehg ;u mshd wdfõY ùula fmkakqï
lf<a' fuh ienEjgu ñh .sh mshd wdfõY ùula fkdfjhs' ta jf.au ud,sld wks;a wh
bÈßfha rÕmEula l<;a fkdfjhs' wehg ieñhd l< jro fjkqfjka idudkH mSvkfha§
ieñhdg o~qjï lrkak nE' tksid wef.a háis; thg Wml%uhla fhÿjd' ta ;uhs wehg;a
fkdoekS fufia wdfõYhla we;slsÍu' tfia ke;sj mshd N+;hl= ù meñŒu;a fkdfjhs'
ud,sldg ufkda ffjoH m%;sldr ,nd §u ;=<ska weh
idudkH ;;a;ajhg m;a lr .kakd w;f¾ ieñhdg weh yd tlaj ñh .sh mshd fjkqfjka
mskalï isÿlrk f,i wjjdo yd Wmfoia ÿkakd' tho wef.a udkisl frda.h iqjm;a ùu i|yd
fya;= jqKd'
udkisl frda. úfYaI{ ffjoH wreŒ wfíisxyf.a jD;a;Sh
w;aoelSula weiqßks
