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l,a ;shdu fmïj;sh .ek oek.kak
id¾:l hq. osúhla .;lrkak fmr yß flkdj f;dard.kak
id¾:l hq. osúhlg Wreulï lshkakg kï ieñhd fukau ìßof.a woyia fukau wej;=ï mej;=ï o tlsfklg iudk úh hq;=h’ mriamr úfrdaë u; m%ldY jqkq ;ekays tlsfkld jdolr.kakg mgka .ks;s’ fï ;;a;ajh újdyhg fmrmgka fmïj;=ka f,i l,a f.jk iufhaoSu oel.kakg mq¿jka jqkq kuq;a tlsfkld flfrys neÿKq wdorh uq,a ùu ksidfjkau Tjqka jeros fmkajd oSug fyda jeros yod .ekSug W;aiy fkdlr;s’

kuq;a újdy osúhg msúiqk úg ;;a;ajh fjkia fj;s’ ld,h;a iu.ska fndfyda fokdg mjq,a Ôú;h tmd ù oslalidoh olajd .egqï ÿros. hhs’ ta ksidfjkau wm ;nkakdjQ fuu igyk fydoska lshjkak’ Tn fmïjf;la kï n,kak Tfí fmïj;sh fujka ;eke;a;shla o lshd’ Tn fmïj;shla kï Tn i;=j ;sfnkak jQ fuu jeros ksjeros lr.kakg W;aiy lrkak’

1. ñ;=rkag wlue;s fmïj;shka’
Tn Tnf.a ñ;=rka msßila iu. úfkdao pdßldjla hdug iQodkïj isák úg Tnf.a fmïj;d thg tl fy<du úreoaO jkjdg Tn leue;so@ keye fkao@ ta jf.au hd¿jka iu. hd¿ ñ;%lï jeäh ;shd.kak tmd hehs kS;s ouk ldka;djkag fndfyda msßñ olajkafka wlue;a;la’ ksjeros oelaula we;s lsisÿ ldka;djla leu;s fjkafka keye ;uka wdof¾ lrk mqoa.,hd ;ksju Tfya n,d.;a w; n,df.k hd¿fjla ñ;%fhla ke;sj Ôj;a fjkjdg’ tjeks mqoa.,hska ksr;=reju .eg¨j,g ueosfjk nj Tn okakjdo@ tfiau ;u hy¿jkag wdof¾ lrk Tjqkaf.a ÿliem fidhd n,k msßñ újdy jQ miq ;u ìß|g b;d oeä f,i wdorh /ljrKh ,nd fok whhs’ ta ksid m%:ufhkau ¥m;a udkisl;ajfhka ñfokak W;aidy lrkak’

2. muKg jvd ys;k fmïj;sh’
´kEu fohla ´kEjg jvd ´fku keye lsh,d l;djla Tn wid we;s’ ta jf.a yeu fohla ms<sn|j ´kdjg jvd ys;k ldka;djkag msßñ wh jeä ukdmhla keye’ WodyrKhla jYfhka lsõfjd;a wehs wo thd ug f.dvdla ,iaikhs lsõfõ’ ke;akï uf.a ld¾hd,fha fckS yß ,iaikhs lsõfõ wehs@" wdosh .ek mr f;rgu isf;kjd kï ta jf.au ieye,a¨fjka Ôúf;a osyd n,kak lsis leue;a;la ke;akï tjeks udkisl uÜgïj, miqjk ldka;djka flfrys msßñkaf.a ;sfnk wdl¾IKh YS>%fhka wvqjk .;shl=hs ;sfnkafka’ ta jf.au tjeks fmïj;shka isák fmïj;=ka is;kafka’ wehs uf.a fmïj;sh ieu úgu iEu fohla ms<sn|ju ielfhka n,kafk hkqfjkqhs’ fï ;;a;ajfhka ñoSug kï Tn l< hq;af;a kej;;a Tn lrk lshk foaj,a ms<sn|j is;d ne,Suhs’ ldka;dfjda jeä reÑhla olajkafka Tjqkaf.a iuyr yeÕSï jidf.k isàughs kuq;a ta yeÕSï jix lrf.k bkafka ke;sj fmïj;dg lshkak W;aidy lrkak’ ta jf.au Tnf.a wruqK Tyqg myod fokak’ weia lka werf.k n,kak Tyq fudkjo lshkafka lshd’ mqxÑ foaj,a .ek uy f,dl=jg ys;k tl kj;a;kak’

3. yeu úgu wefÕa t,a,S isàug leu;s fmïj;shka’
fujeks .;s.=K ;sfnk ldka;djka yeu úgu ;u fmïj;df.a Woõ Wmldrfhka f;drj Ôú;h ms<sn|j is;Sug fyda Ôú;h ms<sn|j oelaug leue;a;la olajkafka keye’ Tjqka fmïjf;la uqK .eiqKq uq,a i;sfhau Tjqkag ;oska nef|kjd’ ta jf.au bka miqj Ôúf;a iEu fohloSu fmïj;df.a Woõjlska f;drj lsisjla lsÍug Tjqka leu;s fjkafka keye’ ;u Ôú;fha iEu fohlau fmïj;d iu. lsÍug;a iEu Woõ Wmldrhlau Tyqf.ka ,nd .ekSug;a fujeks ldka;djka fm<fUkafka mqreoaola jYfhkqhs’ kuq;a fujeks mrfmdaIs; Ôú; .; lrk ldka;djkag msßñ leu;s keye’ thg fya;=j tjeks ldka;djkag ;u fmïj;d fkdue;sj lsisÿ ld¾hhla ksishdldrj lr.; fkdyels njg Tjqka f;areï .ekSuhs’
ta jf.au fujeks ldka;djka oji uq¿,af,au ;u fmïj;dg flá mKsúv heùu fkdlvjd ÿrl:kfhka weu;Su jf.au Thdg uu wdofrhs hkqfjka mejeiSug;a wu;l lrkafka keye’ yeu flfkl=gu fm!oa.,sl Ôú;hla ;sfnk nj uq,skau f;areï .ekSug wjYH fjkjd’ Tn wdof¾ lrk fmïj;d /lshdjla lrkafka kï Tyqg os.ska os.gu ÿrl:k weu;=ï oSu yd flá mKsúv heùu mq¿jka ;rï iSud lrkak’ Tyqf.a /lshdj lrf.k hdug w;aje,la fjkak’ ;uka wdof¾ lrk fmïj;dj úYajdi lrkak’ Tyqg ksoyfia yqiau .ekSug bv fokak’

4. fmïj;d yQrf.k lkak yok fmïj;shka’
fujeks .;s.=K ;sfnk ldka;djka rc l=ußhka fuka Ôj;a ùug jeä leue;a;la olajkjd’ ta jf.au yuqjQ uq,a wjia:dfõoS ;u fmïj;dj yQrf.k lkak W;aidy lrk cd;sfha ldka;djka Tyqf.ka we÷ï me<÷ï wdydrmdk ú;rla fkfjhs uqo,a o ,nd .ekSug iQlaIauj yeisÍug wehg f,dl= olaI;djhla ;sfnkjd’ olsk olsk wrefudaiï ñ,oS .ekSug;a fujeks ldka;djka Wmfhda.S lr.kafka ;u fmïj;df.a uqo,a’ fujeks ldka;djkag fï jf.a .;s.=Kj,ska ñoSug wjYH kï uq,skau l< hq;af;a ;ukaghs lsh,d /lshdjla fidhd .ekSughs’ túg Tngu yelsfõú Tnf.a Ôú;hg wjYH ish¨ foa ñ,oS .ekSug’ kuq;a Tng yeu úgu l=ußhla fuka Ôj;a ùugkï tlu fmïjf;l= iu. isàugkï neß fõú’ ta ksid Tnf.a uki yß ud¾.fha fhoùug lghq;= lrkak’

5. fm!oa.,sl;ajh wka whg fy<slrk fmïj;shka’
Tn fmïj;dg wdof¾ lrk ms<sfj< ms<sn|j fukau Tyq Tng ÿka m%:u ydÿj ms<sn|j;a wka hy¿jka iu. mjik fmïj;shkag fmïj;=ka leu;s keye’ fm!oa.,sl Ôúf;a f;dr;=re wl=rla kEru ;u ñ;=re ñ;=ßhkag mjik ldka;djka Tn fndfyda úg oel we;s’ ta jf.au wksl=;a mqoa.,hkaf.a ´m¥m ;ukaf.a fohla fuka i,ld fmïj;d yuqjQ fudfydf;a isg ta .ek l;d lrk ldka;djkag mqreI md¾Yajfha we;af;a wvq ie,ls,a,la’ f;areï .kak Ôúf;a ieÕjqK iuyr isÿùï wka whg lSfuka Tfn;a fmïj;df.;a wd;au f.!rjhg bka f,dl= le,,la isÿjk nj’ wmf.a Ôú;hg hy¿ ñ;%lï wjYHhs’ kuq;a ta hd¿lïj, iSudjla wm úiska mkjd .; hq;=hs’

6. l=udßldjla fuka isàug leu;s ldka;dj’
fujeks ldka;djka yeuúgu ;u we÷ï fukau uqyqKo úis;=rej ;nd .ekSug f,dl= uqo,la jeh lrkjd’ ta jf.au yeu úgu oE;a fomd fukau uqyqfKao fkdfhl=;a wdf,amk j¾. ;jrdf.k isàug fudjqka yß leu;shs’ yeu úgu mqreI mlaIfha weia weh fj; r|jd ;nd .ekSug oeä W;aidyhla orkjd’ fïlmaj,ska uq¿ YÍrhu yevlr .ekSu fudjqkaf.a wruqKhs’ Tjqka isysk f,dalfha ießirñka Ôúf;a h:d¾:h w;aú|Sug leu;s keye’ tjeks ldka;dj flfryso mqreI mlaIh olajkafka iel uqiq ne,aula’ Tjqka rdclSh úosyg ;u Ôúf;a .; lsÍug oeä W;aidyhla .kakjd’ fujeks ldka;djka ;ukaf.a is;=ï me;=ïj,g iß,k fmïjf;la ks;ru f;dard .ekSug W;aiql úh hq;=hs’ tfia fkdjqjfyd;a Tnf.a l=ußhl fuka .; lrk Ôú;h wmdhla njg m;afõú’

7. .;s.=K iefklska fjkia lrk fmïj;shka
tl ojila weia kgjd iqkaorj iskdfik fujeks ldka;djka miqosk lsKsiaila wrka ;u fmïj;dj urkak yok ;rug ;ryd .;s fmkajkjd’ fujeks ldka;djka yßhg kdgHhla rÕ olajkjd jf.a ;uhs Ôúf;a .; lrkafka’ ta jf.au iuyr wjia:djkaj, yßu fudav jev lrkak;a fudjqka yßu ymkakq’ wdorh lrk úg f,dalfha isák wxl tfla fmïj;sh f,i yeisfrk fujeks ldka;dj B<Õ fudfydf;a f,dalfha isák tmdu lrmq fmïj;sh njg m;afjkjd’ fï jf.a .;s.=K ;sfnk ldka;djkag msßñ wh fldfy;au leue;s keye’ Tjqkag leu;s jqK;a fndfydau flá ld,hla ;=< wehf.a .;s.=K jgyd .;a miqj fjkaù hkjd’ ta ksid tjeks .;s.=K ;sfnk ldka;djka m%:ufhkau l< hq;af;a ;u udkisl uÜgu b;d ieye,a¨fjka ;nd .ekSuhs’ Tnj yer.sh fmïj;d .ek miq;eú,s fjkak tmd’ Tnf.a laIKsl fldamh mq¿jka ;rï md,kh lr.kak n,kak’

8. msßñkaj ms<sl=,a lrk fmïj;shka
fujeks ldka;djka yuqjQ uq,a osku ;u fmïj;dg b;d r¿ mr¿ úosyg ie,lSug miqng jkafka keye’ ta jf.au yeu .;s.=Khlau mqreIdêm;Hhg úreoaOjhs iEoS ;sfnkafka’ laIKslju fldam ùu fujeks ldka;djkaf.a ;j;a tla ,laIKhla’ ;u fmïj;d úys¿jla l<;a tjeks ldka;djkag ;ryd hkjd’ ta jf.au mqreI mlaIfha wh w|sk m<|sk úosyg ;u .; irid .ekSug;a fudjqka ;=< we;af;a úYd, leue;a;la’ ta ú;rla kffuhs yeu úgu ljqo Th msßñkaj úYajdi lrkafka hkqfjka Tjqka ;u ys;j;a hy¿ fhfy<shkag ks;ru mjikjd’ fujeks .;s ysñ ldka;djka uq,skau l< hq;af;a ;u .;s mej;=ï ldka;djlg iqÿiq wkaoñka yev .iajd .ekSuhs’ ta jf.au Tnf.a ys; lsishï msßñfhla ßojQ muKska iEu msßñu tl jf.a .;s.=Kj,ska fyì mqoa.,hka f,i ys;kak tmd’ ta wh w;r fyd| .;s.=Kj,ska hq;a msßñka fndfyda m%udKhlao ke;af;a keye’